Relationship (Love) Readiness Test
☆ Unlock your path to love—discover your readiness for a meaningful relationship with science-backed insights and tailored advice.
Quick and Efficient: Complete the test in just 38 questions within 10-15 minutes.
Personalized Insights: Receive a fully customized report tailored to your unique emotional and relational patterns.
Comprehensive Analysis: Explores 5 core areas to provide a well-rounded understanding of your love readiness.
Actionable Strategies: Includes practical recommendations to improve emotional regulation, communication skills, and relational behaviors, helping you prepare for a meaningful relationship.
Scientifically Backed: Grounded in Donald Winnicott’s Object Relations Theory, research by Penke and colleagues on mate selection, and the latest findings in relationship and marriage psychology.
User-Friendly Professional Report: Delivered in a professionally designed report with clear charts, an overall Love Readiness Score, detailed insights, and step-by-step recommendations tailored to your results.
Great For Those: looking to break free from being single, Preparing themselves for a fulfilling and lasting relationship; Wondering why you’re still single; Ready to find love but unsure how to start ;Struggling with past relationships;Wanting to better understand your relationship needs;
Below are just a few sample pages from the full report. The actual report includes much more detailed and personalized content:
About this test
The Love Readiness (Love) Test is a comprehensive tool designed to help you assess your emotional and relational readiness for love. Backed by groundbreaking theories such as Donald Winnicott’s Object Relations Theory, research on mate selection by Penke and colleagues, and recent insights into relationships and marriage, this test helps you uncover the factors that may be holding you back.By exploring your 5 most significant factors of Self Readiness and Relationship Readiness, the Love Readiness Test provides clear results, personalized recommendations, and actionable strategies. Whether you're looking to break free from being single or prepare for a meaningful partnership, this test empowers you to confidently start your journey toward love.
How Far Are You from Finding and Failing in Love?
- How can you break free from being single?
- How can you prepare yourself for a meaningful relationship?
- What’s stopping you from finding love?
The Love Readiness Test is an effective and practice verified tool designed to assess your readiness for love, helping you Understand why love seems to be out of reach for you and the key factors that might be influencing your romantic life.
What You’ll Get from the Test
There are two dimensions for relationship readiness:
- Self Readiness: represents your personal readiness to enter and sustain a healthy, fulfilling relationship.
- Relationship Readiness: your understanding and ability to build and maintain healthy partnerships.
By exploring your Self Readiness and Relationship Readiness in several sub-dimensions, the Love Readiness Test helps you identify the areas that may be blocking your path to love while offering practical advice to overcome these obstacles. With clear results and personalized recommendations, you can confidently begin your journey toward love.
Love Readiness Score: You’ll receive an clear overall score reflecting your emotional and relational readiness for love.
In-Depth Insights: Detailed feedback on your emotional and relational patterns, highlighting specific areas that might be hindering your love life.
Personalized Recommendations: Practical advice tailored to your test results, helping you overcome obstacles and better prepare for a meaningful relationship.
Actionable Strategies: Tips and strategies to help you improve your emotional self-regulation, communication skills, and relationship behaviors.
Science Behind the Test
Based on the groundbreaking theories of Attachment Theory (Bowlby) , Donald Winnicott’s Object Relations Theory and the influential research by Penke and colleagues on mate selection, Homan et al.'s research on relationship readiness. Also we incorporate findings from recent research on relationships and marriage, providing a more practical and precise results.
Idea Users
The Love Readiness Test is highly recommand for anyone who is:
- Wondering why you’re still single
- Wanting to find love but unsure how to start
- Struggling with past relationships
- Wanting to better understand your relationship needs
Our Team
Our team consists of highly qualified professionals who have graduated from esteemed institutions such as the University of Pennsylvania, University of Toronto, and University College London (UCL). With over a decade of experience in the field of psychology, our core members are certified clinical psychologists, psychotherapists, and psychoanalysts. This expertise ensures that every assessment is grounded in professional knowledge and scientific rigor.
Additionally, we have partnered with reputable medical institutions, holistic health centers, and crisis intervention organizations. Our collaborative approach enhances the quality and reliability of our assessments, providing you with the best insights into your psychological well-being.
I’ve been single for a bit after a messy situationship and wasn’t sure if I’m actually ready to try again. This test didn’t just say yes/no—it broke down emotional readiness, boundaries, and communication habits. The section on “patterns I repeat under stress” was uncomfortably accurate, but helpful. I liked the reflection prompts and the concrete next steps (like practicing a gentle boundary script). It made “readiness” feel like skills I can build, not a mystery vibe.
Coming out of a long-term relationship, I wanted a gut check: am I ready or just lonely? The readiness profile highlighted grief vs. growth—basically, I’m healing, but I need to rebuild trust in dating at a slow pace. The test suggested tiny experiments (a coffee date, a boundary I can say out loud, a “no late-night texting” rule for myself) so I don’t over-commit too fast. The journaling prompts and re-check timeline were nice touches. I’m not rushing, and I feel okay about that.
I’m pretty independent and was worried the test would tell me I “have to be vulnerable immediately.” It didn’t. It validated that independence is a strength while still nudging me to let people in gradually. The “green flags to look for” page (keeps promises, asks follow-up questions, respects pacing) gave me a simple filter. Also loved the gentle tone—felt like a wise friend rather than a lecture.
